Some people say that love is the feeling you experience at the start of a relationship,wanting to spend every moment with that person,missing them desperately.But as the relationship progresses,you accept your partner's weakness as well as his/her strengths.In essence you being to love that person.Love is more than the interesnt and attraction and commonalties that two people share.One needs to know about love and accept it and needs to treat what it brings with kindness.If u find yoursef in love with someone who doesn't love you,be gentle with yourself.There is nothing wrong with you.Love just doesn;t choose to form in the other person's heart.You may not have succeeded in love,but be thankful that you love someone so much that you never thouught you would be able to do so.You must be glad that you are able to find true love something which most people only hear or read in books and movies. If you find someone else is in love with you and you dont love him/her,feel honoured that love came and knocked at your door,but gently refuse tht gift you cannot return.Don't take davantage,do not cause pain.How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself and all our hearts feel the same pain and joy,even if our lives and ways are different.There is a reason and there is a meaning,you will know in time.Remember that "you dont choose love,love chooses you."All you can really do is to accept it with all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it feels you to overflow to reach out and give it away.Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.This is where many lovers go wrong.Having been so long without love,they understand love only as a need.They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love and they being to look as something that flows to them rather than from them.Love always has been and alywas will be a mystery.Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.If you keep your heart open,it will come again.
